In the text it states that ” they don’t know how to get their way of how to “customize” (Dorsey 3)”. The quote is saying that they don’t know how to take no for an answer because they way their parents raise them, they parents baby them.Also in the text it states that ” it was common practice among middle-class children shift interactions to suit their preferences” (Dorsey 8).the quote is basically saying children don’t know the rules they appear to be acting on their own behalf and that can affect their surroundings like when they at school and places.in the book it states that “you’re part of the problem,Amir if idiots like you and your father didn’t take these people in”(Hassan 4). in other words this quote is saying that he don’t like how he’s living he feel as though it’s Hasan and his father’s fault. in the article it states that “while appearing to transcend class differences however this gesture reaffirms the middle-class ideal”(Dickens 4). this statement is saying that it’s mostly the parents fault because they still treat them like they are still babies and if they act like that it’s going to hurt them in the future because they will still think that their parents are going to be here for them. In the the article it states that “affirmed instead the affective bonds of middle- class family”(Dickens 6). The quote is saying that some family relationships aren’t perfect and it can make the children depressed or act out in school. In the book it states that ” there was a monster in the lake it had grabbed hassan by the ankles, dragged him to the murky bottom. I was that monster”( Hassan 5). In other words this quote is saying that he felt guilty for not helping hassan and that guilt will haunt him for the rest of his left. In the text it states that ” you bring me shame and Hassan …. Hassan’s not going anywhere” ( Hassan 8). This quote is saying that since he feel guilty because he didn’t help Hassan he wants Baba to find a new servant. In the book it states that ” life here is impossible for us now” ( Hassan 13). This quote is saying that Hassan had told Ali what had happened to him he feels like it isn’t safe for them to live their anymore. In conclusion familial relationships can transcend class differences because people don’t know what’s going on outside in their life